In this juicy conversation with
(fellow powerhouse, transformation wizard, and Human Design geek), we got real about the internal junk that keeps brilliant, badass people from living a life that actually feels good.We covered everything from why your nervous system is low-key sabotaging your income to how to stop being everyone’s doormat in your biz.
Here’s the rundown of the conversation, so you know what you’re getting into:
Alignment is your secret weapon, not just a buzzword
You being 100% unapologetically you? That’s not just cute, it’s your cash cow. We talked about how knowing your Human Design isn’t about putting yourself in a box, it’s about throwing out the damn box, dancing on the pieces, and creating a brand and life that actually light you up.
When you align with who you really are, not the watered-down version you’ve been told to be, that’s when the magic (and money) happens.
What is NLP? And how does it work?
NLP (neuro-linguistic programming for those new to the party) is like getting your brain out of its own way.
Your conscious mind might say, “Money can be easy,” but your subconscious is rolling its eyes and muttering, “B.S.” That’s where NLP steps in and rewires the stories you didn’t even know you were telling yourself.
Heather gave the lowdown on how it works, and let’s just say, once you see things differently, you can't unsee it.
Quit being the helper, start being the damn leader
If your worth is tied up in how useful you are to other people, guess what? You’re stuck in the helper wound, not the CEO chair. Overgiving, undercharging, saying yes when you want to scream no… none of that equals success. That equals burnout.
It’s time to drop the martyr cape, set some boundaries, and lead like the magnetic, visionary powerhouse you are.
Stop chasing people who don’t want to be saved
One of the biggest mindset shifts we dished about? Only helping the people who are ready to be helped. You’re not here to drag people to transformation kicking and screaming.
You’re here to speak to the ones already Googling “how the hell do I change my life?” That’s who you serve. That’s who pays. That’s who gets results.
The receiving wound is real (and it’s robbing you)
You can’t rake in abundance when you flinch every time someone compliments your earrings or offers to help with your damn inbox.
We cracked open the “receiving wound,” the one that makes you allergic to support, allergic to praise, and low-key scared of money.
If you want to grow, you have to receive. Period. It’s not a weakness, it’s a freaking power move.
Nervous system chaos is killing your vibe (and your sales)
If your income goes up and you start to panic, or if it dips and you spiral, you’ve got a nervous system set point problem. This isn’t about working harder, it’s about training your body to feel safe with more. More money. More ease. More everything.
Without regulation, you’re just flailing with strategy. With it? You’re unstoppable.
EFT tapping is your new emotional ninja move
Heather and I both geeked out hard on EFT tapping. It’s basically emotional jiu-jitsu for your nervous system. You tap, breathe, and before you know it, you’ve gone from chaos to calm.
It’s like clearing cobwebs from your brain while giving your nervous system a spa day. Bonus: you can do it yourself, anytime, anywhere. Freaking gold!
You need to chill before you make that decision
Especially if you’ve got emotional authority in Human Design, making decisions from a freaked-out place is a hot mess waiting to happen.
Breathwork + tapping = emotional neutrality = you not burning down your launch in a fit of panic. We don’t make million-dollar moves from a meltdown. We make them from peace.
Healing doesn’t have to take forever
Heather’s building a Human Design-based subliminal audio library and it is straight-up genius. These are plug-and-play subconscious upgrades that work while you nap, walk your dog, or stare at your vision board. Want to feel worthy AF without another damn journal session? Just press play.
Goal trauma is a thing (and it’s making you scared to dream)
Ever been so disappointed by a failed goal that you low-key decided not to want anything big ever again? That’s called goal trauma, and it’s a silent dream killer. It hangs out in your nervous system like an ex who won’t stop texting.
The fix? EFT tapping to release it and stop letting old failures dictate your future.
I talk more about Goal Trauma here:
Mistakes aren’t the enemy, they’re the whole damn point
If you’ve got line 3 energy like Heather, trial and error is your superpower. That means you’re supposed to screw up, learn, and teach others how not to faceplant the same way.
Mistakes aren’t failures. They’re feature presentations. Own them. Share them. Make money from them.
Final truth bomb: your self-trust is non-negotiable
At the end of the day, all the tools—NLP, EFT, Human Design, subliminals—are just guiding you back to trusting yourself.
That’s the entire game.
You don’t need to be more productive. You need to be more you.
And when you are? You become absolutely unfreakingstoppable.
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